tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4971083762875016745.post5776616662364746417..comments2023-12-19T18:08:50.022-05:00Comments on Find me Frugal(er): Do You Give To Panhandlers?Andriahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16212214815486879965noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4971083762875016745.post-28967329447803455092012-12-02T19:17:25.389-05:002012-12-02T19:17:25.389-05:00My family gives food and/or drinks (a hot cup of c...My family gives food and/or drinks (a hot cup of coffee, etc). Don't feel right giving money for some reason. Probably 'cuz I know how quickly a dollar will fly out of MY pocket - at least I go home knowing the person's stomach isn't rumbling anymore. <br />Kate (aka. "Mom? Mom? Mom. MOM!")https://www.blogger.com/profile/01252754496130396975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4971083762875016745.post-82190750682969657182012-11-30T17:19:19.291-05:002012-11-30T17:19:19.291-05:00I gave $5 to a young man 2 days ago. I struggled w...I gave $5 to a young man 2 days ago. I struggled with the idea for a moment. We don't have a lot of money, and I don't usually have cash. Every dollar counts in our budget. It was dark and I could tell he was cold. I'm fortunate in that we have a roof and food and my girls will have a Christmas. I gave him the only cash I had and wished I had more to give.Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16661491031920884418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4971083762875016745.post-75990151500180623862012-11-30T17:07:31.526-05:002012-11-30T17:07:31.526-05:00Today, just a block away from the Target store I w...Today, just a block away from the Target store I was headed to, there was a man standing there with a sign that said "Please Help. Need food or work." The entire time I was walking through Target, buying silly things like Marshmallow Hot Cocoa Poptarts, the image of him standing there was burned into my head.<br /><br />As I was shopping, I picked out two apples, a banana, two cans of ravioli, and a box of granola bars to give him. I also purchased a $10 gift card to put in the bag. I know he won't spend it on alcohol or cigarettes because our Target doesn't carry any. He seemed genuine, he seemed like he was in need, and giving to him made me feel better. I figure that even if he was scamming me, at least it made me feel like I had done the right thing, and that in itself was worth it to me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4971083762875016745.post-54480271361484278882012-11-30T11:55:08.312-05:002012-11-30T11:55:08.312-05:00When McDonalds used to have those little tear off ...When McDonalds used to have those little tear off books of gift certificates I would hand out a couple of those. Then at least I knew they could pick a couple of things off of the dollar menu and have a meal. Brandy E.https://www.blogger.com/profile/07498537100289922510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4971083762875016745.post-10779586242169331522012-10-13T21:30:56.148-04:002012-10-13T21:30:56.148-04:00Yeah, when I was unemployed, I smoked even though ...Yeah, when I was unemployed, I smoked even though we literally couldn't afford it because it was a coping mechanism. Now that I'm employed, no smoking for three months! When life is crapping on ya, sometimes you need some alcohol or nicotine just to get through to the next day. Chicken and egg I guess.Fargo Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07822739011893471090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4971083762875016745.post-33067619479536083292012-10-10T09:53:23.644-04:002012-10-10T09:53:23.644-04:00@Fargo--fair point! My mother always said that gi...@Fargo--fair point! My mother always said that giving them money that they would spend on booze would be enabling them, and doing more harm than good, though I agree with Andrea--if I was homeless, I'd want a damn drink every now and then.Frugal(er)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13972354611688622400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4971083762875016745.post-31630925235521273522012-10-10T00:46:57.763-04:002012-10-10T00:46:57.763-04:00I'm not good at giving, cause I'm often so...I'm not good at giving, cause I'm often so broke myself, but I do think it's interesting that there's an instinct to care what someone spends a gift on in this situation, but not in other giving situations. A gift is simply that, and what the person uses that gift for shouldn't matter. I'm glad that the gifts we got for our wedding didn't come with "You can't use it on booze," cause we certainly did for some of it on our honeymoon :)Fargo Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07822739011893471090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4971083762875016745.post-41992263798063977602012-10-09T18:38:35.794-04:002012-10-09T18:38:35.794-04:00If I see someone with a sign and I have cash, I gi...If I see someone with a sign and I have cash, I give them at least a dollar or two. Always. Personally, I don't really care what they spend it on - if I was homeless, I'd probably want to drink too! I feel like I'm giving for the right reasons and it's not my fault if the person chooses not to use it wisely. If even one person has been able to buy food with the money I gave them, then every dollar I've ever handed out has been worth it. I'm just glad I live in a rural area and not a city because I'd probably go broke!Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10044023354086249329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4971083762875016745.post-80452960280588722662012-10-09T16:54:17.378-04:002012-10-09T16:54:17.378-04:00I know a few people who keep "blessings bags&...I know a few people who keep "blessings bags" in their cars. It's usually made up of granola bars and/or other small snacky type things and toiletries. I don't necessarily think it's a terrible idea to give to the homeless but I would much rather it be through some sort of charity or volunteer work. Then I know exactly where my money/supplies/time is going.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03986690214428064148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4971083762875016745.post-31856799517524783392012-10-09T09:47:18.465-04:002012-10-09T09:47:18.465-04:00If I have food in my car (such as I just went groc...If I have food in my car (such as I just went grocery shopping), then I will usually try to give them something. no money though.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01699594650305506763noreply@blogger.com